Bubita completely enthralled with the ceiling fan.
Bubita has definitely found her smile. She smiles whenever she sees any she recognizes. This even includes Sandy and her new best friend the ceiling fan. And she is not stingy with them. She smiles during "conversations" too. Most of the time the smiles are followed by her heart-warming giggle or laughter. They are more common occurrence so Bubita no longer startles at the sound of her laugh.
Smiling Bubita
She has a sunny disposition.
Bubeaner continues to insist on helping out with everything we do. He likes to push the laundry baskets to and from the laundry room. But the best part appears to be actually putting the clothes into the washing machine. Bubeaner waits until the washing machine starts; he's mesmerized by the cycling motion. Thankfully, the controls are still too high for him to reach. We also encourage Bubeaner to help us out with Bubita's care. He will bring us the clean diapers and wipes when Bubita needs a diaper change. We also get him involved in picking out her clothes. Bubeaner really enjoys helping out. He even helped to burp her at one time. And Bubita loves her Bubeaner. She will smile and giggle when he's anywhere near her.
Bubeaner ensuring the pantry door is completely closed.
He cannot stand seeing doors open.
And when he can't help, Bubeaner imitates our behavior. His current favorite pastime includes making vacuuming sounds as he pushes around any item even vaguely resembling a vacuum cleaner. So far he has used his golf club (courtesy of Ms. Debbie), curtain rod and a shower curtain rod. We wanted to buy a set of toy appliances, but we've yet to find any that are NOT pink or feminine. It's sad since cleaning is not, and should not, be considered a gender-specific activity.
Vacuuming the hallway.
He's tried pushing the real vacuum cleaner but it's too heavy.
We keep the TV off most of the day at our home. It's not that we don't watch TV, but thanks to the DVR (digital video recorder) we can tape our shows and watch them after the kiddos are in bed. The only exception is usually during the morning while we get ready. Even so, Bubeaner really never enjoyed watching TV. In fact, he still does not really watch much TV; we've been playing movies in the car and he will only watch for a few minutes. Bubita, however, is another story. We can't get her to stop watching. If the TV is on, she will move and strain her little neck until she can see it. This may prove a problem as she gets older.
Pint-size TV junkie
Bubeaner loves his Bubita. However, there are many ways where we are finding out how he resented the changes brought on by the birth. Momma use to put him to bed for his nap and bed time with almost no issues. We had the same routine of prayers and songs.... almost from when he was still in the NICU. But after the c-section, Momma was on lifting restriction. We did cuddle and still did our songs/prayers. But either Meme'Licia or Dad actually got him in bed. After six weeks, we are attempting to resume our normal routine. Well, every time Momma takes him for bedtime Bubeaner will fuss and cry and not settle down. It usually requires either Meme'Licia or Dad to calm him down. It's normal and we're not giving up, but it breaks Momma's heart.
Bubeaner helping get the lotion for Bubita.
Bubeaner has also been terribly missing his girls. He asks for his "Ayi" and "LaLa" every day! Of course, he asks for them more when we discipline him. Spoiled little boy.












